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Saturday 28 June 2014

INDIA- The Country of Emotions...!!!




I was at an Airport of one of the Metro Cities last week and I noticed the people at the Departure Terminal giving the farewell to their loved ones with teary eyes and lots of Emotions. In my opinion if you want to see the emotional side of the country, you should visit a Railway station or an Airport.
Luckily we are living into the Indian Culture where traditions, customs are given lots of importance, but the sad part is Dropping the guests or the family member to the Airport or the Railway Station to give him a farewell is also included in our tradition nowadays. A one single person who is been given the farewell is accompanied by some 20 odd people which is sometimes funny. Nevertheless, every person coming to the farewell is an income source for the Indian Railways and the Airport Authority of India, unless they do not take the Platform Tickets (If you know What I Mean).

If we notice, emotions also comes out when in a house, a daily soap is on. With the events happening in the #EktaKapoor’s Daily Soaps, I have seen many houses where the women shed tears. Same thing happens in the theatres, when in a love story, an actor or the actress dies or re unite or whatever. The scene in the film “Bhaag Milkha Bhag” where Farhan Akhtar runs without his pair of shoes and still wins the race, the scene in the film “3 Idiots”, when Aamir Khan delivers the Baby and the moment the baby starts crying after “All is Well” are examples of when the Audience is carried out by the emotions.

Another emotional moment the country saw when Mr. Narendra Modi, went upto his mother after resigning as a CM of Gujarat for taking charge as the PM of India. The amount of emotion was maximum when his mother fed him the food and he ate it with her hand.
Sports also bring emotions. The moment when MS Dhoni hit that winning shot in the 2011 Cricket World Cup, I remember myself hitting a punch into the air and almost in tears. This emotions create a feeling of pride. A moment I remember when I feel everybody became emotional was when Sachin Tendulkar gave his Farewell Speech, but each and every person was in tears at the moment when he for the last time went to the Wankhede’s Pitch and Kissed it (Even, I am getting emotional writing this Line).

The people of India gets emotional when a girl is abused brutally, they come on the streets and protest for the victim. But its pity that they are the only one who did not help the girl and his friend when they were needing the help.

In the influence of certain political parties, people sometimes call “Bandhs” in a place, which they say is in the interest of the people, but actually it is not. By creating “Bandhs”, the people are affected the most. But people do that, because of emotions and that’s the sad part.

Well, we saw how India is an emotional country, but I sometimes think, where those emotions go when we see an Orphan down on the streets or a really poor family wandering in the place for its home. I know people who on one hand protest for the bad things happening in the country, and harassing their parents on the other. I sometimes feel that if India is a country of Emotions, why is there a need of Orphanages and Old Age homes?

If there are emotions, why is a woman being abused in the country? The problems is, we do not have emotions for the things we do not like. Some people like their parents just for the sake of their wealth or whatever. I have come across many parents who are so much harassed by their wards. Why isn’t the same emotion for the parents, which we see into that woman who is abused? Aren’t we abusing our parents by harassing them? Theirs is lot more thinking required into this.

I hope all of us have same emotions for everybody, be it our belongings or others.

Wednesday 11 June 2014

Three Friends...!!!



Once there lived a man in an Arab Dynasty who had three friends. He loved the first friend very much. He used to give anything the first friend wanted. Never said NO for anything to him. Always did whatever he told to him. For the second friend, the man loved him but less than the first one. Had respect for him. But he didn’t love his third friend much, didn’t obeyed him ever.  The friend loved him but the man never showed respect for his love.

Once the man was in some trouble and he was very much depressed by the matter. He had to face the king of the dynasty and so he needed help for the same. He approached his first friend whom he loved the most. He said to him “I have got a problem with the king and need some help of yours for the same matter.” The friend said a direct NO to the man. The man was shocked. He had never denied for anything to his friend but today when he needed him he denied. The friend said “What have u done for me so that I should do something for you????.” The man was depressed a lot.

He went to the second friend and ask for the help. The friend said that he will help him by coming till the gate of the king’s palace. After that he can’t come because he has the fear of the king.

At the end he went to the third friend. Seeing him nervous the friend asked about what was the matter. The man told him about his problem. The friend said that he will help him get out of the problem. The man had a sigh of relief. His problem was solved and the king did nothing to him. He apologized to the friend because he never loved his friend and at time of difficulty, he only came and solved his problem.

Same is the case in the life of the human. The first friend whom we love is the MONEY and Wealth. We always go after it. We always do what it make us do. But after death the money we earned, we had will be of no use.

The second friend is the Family. They will help us in the life till death. But after death they will just come up to our grave or Final Rights and return back.

The third and the final friend is “Amal Saaleh”, the Good Deeds. This is what we never love to do. But it is the only saviour in our Life. This helps us make happy. People always want to priorities Earning Money over Family and Good Deeds which is right but depending extensively only on it will not help. Proper balance has to be kept.

By doing good deeds, I do not mean to donate money or do spend time with the poor or something like that. Just define what a “good deed” according to you is and what gives you happiness and then go for it.

I do not talk about Life after Death like most of the Religion do, but I strongly believe that doing Good Deeds can make you happy.

Contributed by: Hozefa Malek


(Note: This article was also published in BADRE MUNEER, the worldwide magazine of Dawoodi Bohra)